O sayyoni

The most beautiful part of love is trying to unwrap every layer of each other’s personality and accepting each other completely. The excitement that flutters inside the heart to discover the shades of your special person is something that makes you impatient. Knowing and understanding someone inside out is the point where love burgeons and it has no endpoint. The more time you spend with a person, the better you know him/her. You crave that more time, yet your curiosity compels you to seek an instant answer. “O sayyoni” describes the concealed beauty of asking questions of your heart and seeking answers from the mouth of your beloved, the answer you already knew a bit and wish to find it entirely on your own.

Puchh rahi hai meri justazoo
Kya hai tu
O sayyoni o mitwa
O sohneya o mitwa
O sayyoni o mitwa

How do you feel when someone says “Hi beautiful” or “Hi handsome”! I think you blow that in the wind of laughter. But tell me… Don’t you blush & smile unknowingly when your special someone addresses you like that? You do. It happens because compliments from others may sound cliche to you, but the same words from your beloved reverberate in your mind for the umpteenth time. Soulmate, sweetheart, darling, lifepartner are the words you find too fancy until a person makes you feel like these with his/her simple act of love, respect & care. Words from the mouth of your beloved go straight to your heart.

Tu hai jaise koi paheli
Jo na suljha paaye dil
Aaj hoke mujhse rubaru
Bata bata bata kya hai tu

Every person in this world is a paradox. And you are not an exception. Your set of behaviour is also a puzzle. But not all will see it and the majority of those who see it won’t try to solve it. Because you don’t show all of your being infront of everyone. You fear of being judged. You fear of being misunderstood. And one day a person comes in your life who puts all the effort to explore each nook & corner of your heart. You may look sorted from outside to everyone. But that person will notice how messed up you are from inside. That person will want to walk miles holding your hand, to gaze at stars sitting by your side, to stand with you in all highs & lows so that s/he can gather each bit of you & accept the whole you. S/he has all the patience to do all these. Still, S/he will ask you about you innocently & impatiently “Bata bata bata kya hai tu”

Tu kabhi sonpari
Tu kabhi desi girl
Tu kabhi teekhi miri
Tu kabhi meethi honey
Bata bata bata kya hai tu

Who doesn’t love fairytales! I think many of us do. And most of the girls may say it or not, but secretly they crave to be treated as fairies. At a moment she wishes to wear a long fluffy gown, to fly in the sky of freedom, to do whatever her heart desires. But next moment she turns into a desi girl who is much more comfortable in her dailywear, who is ready to sacrifice her freedom for the sake of her family, who puts the happiness of her beloved ones above herself. A girl knows well how to behave according to the situation. Sometimes she tells you all the harsh words & makes you feel like the victim of her anger. Sometimes she evacuates all the love of her heart & gives that to you without any condition, without any expectation. Hot pepper tastes meagre in front of the anger of a woman & honey can’t compete with the sweetness a woman’s heart holds. Observe a woman minutely. You will know.

Tu kabhi mast magan
Tu kabhi chhaila sajan
Tu kabhi tezz hawa
Tu kabhi mehka pawan
Bata bata bata kya hai tu

When a man is in love with you, he will be the happiest when you are around him. Because your presence elucidates his existence. When any other guy stares at you for long, compliments you too much, proposes to you, tries to impress you, you name it flirting and try to avoid. But when he does the same, it becomes a bouquet of happiness for you which makes you crave more and more. A man in love sometimes behaves so unpredictable to do anything out of blue just to surprise you. Sometimes his actions feel like a strong wind that can blow away all the dust from your mind & can also gather all the dust in your mind. But sometimes he feels like a fragrant breeze which soothes the heart and soul to the core. You will get perplexed over his personality & will fall in love with him more.

Baadal mein chand jaise pyara lage
Vaise pyara mujhe yaar lagta hai tu
Pyari mujhe bhi lagti hai tu
Lekin badi tezz taraari hai tu

If your girl is a selenophile, then be assured that she will love you with all your ups & downs. She will handle all your mood swings. She will accept your flaws. Amidst the crowd, she will choose you everyday. Because she has already loved the moon before. And she knows how much the moon may change its attire, it will never stop giving her its compassion & coolness. Among the floating clouds, she sees the beauty of the moon which is synonymous with permanence for her. Beauty of a woman enhances manifold when it gets complemented with wisdom. Because today’s era demands a woman to become wise. A woman understands the thin line between being emotional & being fool. So when you praise a woman for the beauty of her face, figure & heart, then don’t forget that she has a brain also.

Tu kabhi gudd ki dali
Tu kabhi neem chadhi
Tu kabhi khilta kanwal
Tu kabhi kachchi kali
Bata bata bata kya hai tu

When you love a woman, then be ready to dip in her sweet talks sometimes & to swallow her bitter words sometimes. In her painful days when the moodswing is at its peak, then gift her some chocolates to balance the bitterness she throws at you. Adjectives may seem superficial. But metaphors are a deep way of appreciating someone. Using a metaphor for someone tells how that person invades your thought even when you look at other things. When a woman truly loves you, you can see her both soft & strong side. Sometimes she becomes a kid infront of you making you tolerate all her mischief. And sometimes she becomes an age-old granny giving you gyaan about life. But you will fall in love with both of her sides. Because be it an open lotus or a raw bud, both are beautiful in their own way, in their own time.

Tera mera silsila hai ghazab
Jaane kahaan humko le jayega
Yeh to jahaan bhi le jayega
Lekin deewana humko kar jayega

Many times we feel like nomads being unaware of our final destination. But when love flourishes in your heart, you become a traveller enjoying the journey. Thousands of fears jingle inside your mind. The fear of falling out of love, the fear of not being accepted by society, the fear of being a victim of cruel destiny, and the fear of not being together till the end. You don’t know what the future has in store for you both. But the only thing you know is that this love will make you learn how to live. You may end up being together or not, but this journey will tag you as a lover, a person who has the courage to share the precious emotion of heart with someone.

Tu kabhi sapna lage
Tu kabhi apna lage
Tu kabhi laad kare
Tu kabhi mujhse lade
Bata bata bata kya hai tu

Have you ever felt condradictory emotions for the same person? I mean while talking to that person, you feel like you have known each other for ages. You feel a special kind of connection. That person feels like an inseparable part of your own. But sometimes the same person feels like a dream with whom you have no relation in reality. The person who feels the closest at a time, seems too distant sometimes that you feel like you can not reach that level. Pampering and fighting are the ingredients of love. But one should realize which is needed in what proportion. A person seems caring when he pampers you. But you name the same person as rude when he fights with you. And you get confused regarding the true shade of his personality.

Arrey ab to bata kya hai tu
Tera aashiq aur tu
Arrey woh to baad mein bataungi

This is the cutest part of this song. When a man gives single one word answer to all the subjective questions of a woman & seeks answers from her, then she climbs another stair of playfulness. Because she wants to see his desperation and patience at the same time. She makes him wait for more. She doesn’t answer because she wants him to uncover her heart layer by layer on his own and she never gives that chance to everyone.
Pawandeep & Arunita have stuffed so much magic in this song that you can’t stop yourself from replaying it again & again.

©ruchiabhisikta

8 thoughts on “O sayyoni

  1. SMiLes Dear Ruchi So Nice to Hear Your
    Poetry Again So Deep A Moving Story of
    True Love You Relate Through and Through

    And True If We Live A Thousand And More Lifetimes

    And Before Each Life God Meets With Us As Legend

    And Stories

    Of Dreams Come
    True in a Thousand
    Lifetimes and So Much
    More Than A Thousand Years too

    Seeing Perhaps Before i Am Born Yes A Meeting
    With God Face to Face Within then True too As God

    Might Dance And Sing

    This is Your Destiny If You
    Will Agree to It Now True

    Both iN DarK
    And LiGHT

    mY FRiEnD

    As God MiGHT
    Dance And Sing Within
    First You Will Be Autistic
    And Not Able to Speak Until 4

    You Will Have Open Arms For All
    Strangers And Your Eyes Will Be
    So Beautiful Green to Changing Blue

    Strangers Will Believe You Are A Girl
    Instead of A Boy With Open Arms of Love For All

    Yet That’s Not All Your Peers in School Will Tell You
    in No Uncertain Terms You Are Not Good Enough to Exist

    As They Will See You As An Ugly Girl in A Boy’s Body They
    Will See You As So Very Strange Weakest Fish in the Aquarium
    And Just Call You Ugly and Tell You No One Will Ever Come to Love You

    And Then i Must Make close to All Straight A’s Overcoming Stuttering With
    A Mind Just Faster Than A Mouth And Surely Hand Writing So Sloppy Like
    A 4 Year-Old the Rest of My Life as My Hands Would Just Not Keep Up with
    My Brain Hehe It’s Hard Enough With Even A Typewriter Typing 130 WPM

    As Ya Can
    Will Only Go
    So Fast As There
    Has to Be Some Space
    Between Keys just Like
    Notes on a Piano With SMIles

    Anyway i Would Also Have to Earn
    3 College Degrees And Serve Out Rental
    Shoes in A Menial Government Bowling Center
    Federal Job Yet in 18 years of Work then at Close
    To Minimum Wage At Start the Last 5 Years i Would
    Have to Accelerate My Effort in 5 Job Changes to Earn
    Twice As Much as Bowling Center Manager For Enough
    Early Retirement in Disability Hell for 66 Month including
    the Worst Pain Known to Humankind Type Two Trigeminal
    Neuralgia No Drug Would Touch Wake to Sleep to Prepare

    me to Separate me With A Pain and Numb So Bad i Couldn’t
    Remember the Feeling if i Ever Smiled at All Yes to Separate me

    All From CuLTuRE including the Lies FromCuLTuRE Before and
    Still Shut-In For Another 33 Months of 66 Months Pursue Almost
    Every Subject of Life With Many ‘EggHeads’ Reporting IQ’s Close
    to 160 on a Place Called the “Wrong Planet” For Autistic Folks Kinda
    Like me Who Mostly Systemized Life in All Scientific Ways With Very
    Little Emotional Intelligence Then True though i Would Have to Change

    into Artistic From Autistic For What Would Be Required Next Yes Globally
    Respond to Innumerable Poets Around the Globe in Free Verse Poetic Way

    And Write A 10.7 MiLLioN Word Long Form Poem Named “SonG oF mY SoUL”
    in 107 Months By July 18, 2022 Just a Day Before my 9th Anniversary in Escape
    From HeLL ON EartH Back on July 19, 2013 And Not Only That Complete What i
    Casually Describe as An “8th New Testament” Child of that Longest EPiC Long Form
    Bible Poem Named “Depth of the Story” at 1.8 MiLLioN Words of Long Form Poem in
    23 Months of Effort in One Solo Thread on the “Wrong Planet” in Almost 50 Pages Now

    And True Top of
    The Heap of a
    Google Search
    In Search Terms
    of the Title of “Depth of The Story” too

    Yep As Long As the Previous Mahābhārata
    From India Your Homeland True Dear Ruchi

    So Then God Looked At me Within And Said
    There Are Three More Things That Will Assist
    me in All These Requirements of the Destiny of
    My Life if i So Choose To Accept the Mission at Hand

    Then God SHoWeD me the Love of A Mother, Sister,
    And A Most Beautiful Loving Wife Imaginable After that

    The Answer

    Was Easy

    Yes,

    i Will

    i Do i Shall
    Marry the NiGHT
    And Merry the Day of This LiFE True
    And This is My True Love Story in Reply
    to Your Seek and Find of True Love too my FRiEnD Ruchi With SMiLes

    No additional reply required the Gift of the Song of Your Soul is Gift Enough my FRiEnD..:)

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      1. Yeah, It’s True Dear Ruchi Hehe
        It’s Not The Candy Wrapper That
        Counts Its What’s Inside And True

        (Thanks For The Candy By the way)

        i Didn’t Totally Flood Your Page with
        (Not Yet) The Second Birthright Challenge
        Of ‘Bi-Polar Not-Specified’ as True A ‘Perfect

        Storm’ of Sorts With Asperger’s Syndrome too
        As Simon Baron Cohen Who Studies it with an
        Autism Quotient Scan (AQ) Suggests You Test for
        it Generally Speaking As Far As Systemizing Intelligence
        Without Much Social Empathic Intelligence in Deficit and

        True He Suggests that a Broader Autism Phenotype Stretches
        Out to 10 to 15 Percent of the Population as go to Silicon Valley

        Or Any Other STEM Science, Technology, Engineering, or Math School

        And You Will Naturally
        Find Lots of Folks Who
        Spend Their Life in Mechanical
        Cognition In Systemizing Ways

        Yet Often a Bit Cold as It Comes
        to the Colors of Being Human too
        in ToTaLiTY of Social Empathic Artistic Spiritual

        Intelligences too Oh Goodness With Every Struggle
        in Someway There is Gift and Curse too Just Like with

        Most Stuff We Might Consider Gift in Life Like Winning a
        Lottery Yet Finding Out Money isn’t What Leads to Happiness

        It Truly Comes from Within And With Our Connections With Other
        Humans Most So While 7.7 Years or So Of my Life SPENT in Severe Depression
        Associated with Bi-Polar Non-Specified The Rest of My Life is Basically Naturally Now
        Hypo-Manic/Hyperthymic Very Much a Chalice Of Loving Life Overflowing Dude Indeed

        And With Asperger’s Syndrome Deficits in Social Empathic Artistic Spiritual Intelligences is

        A Kind of a Curse
        Yet the Gift of
        Systemizing
        Intelligences in
        my Case Helped
        me to Become Financially
        Independent by age 47 Hooray!

        Asperger’s From my Father’s Side As
        He didn’t Say hardly anything after my
        Mother Married Him for 3 Years and His
        Identical Twin Literally Never Said a Word
        At All to my Mother And Rarely to me any
        Words too Over Decades of my Life too

        And It’s True So Stressed at Work in
        Systemizing Ways of Overwhelming
        Stress i Rarely Said Anything to my
        Wife In those Many Years too Yet

        The Colors of Life Bi-Polar Associated
        Spectrums Bring Greater too in Social
        Empathic Artistic Spiritual Ways Through
        My Mother’s Side of the Family Yet You See It
        IS GREAT THAT OPPOSITES ATTRACT NoW as

        Actually Asperger’s Syndrome and Bi-Polar Spectrum
        Kind of Balance Each Other Out and my Psychiatrist of
        Many Years Says Hooray for me as i am one of few who
        Requires No Drugs Specific to it as i Regulate my Emotions
        And Integrate my Senses With Dance And Song in Poetry Free

        As Just Imagine the World With No Asperger’s Syndrome or Bi-Polar
        Spectrum at All Indeed We Would Likely All Still Be Living In Caves Just
        Tracing the Same Hand Print Art on the Walls Hehe Diversity of the Human
        Condition Yes

        Can And Will
        Never Ever Be
        Erased Now
        If We Expect
        to Continue to
        Exist Out of Caves
        With SMiLes Dear Ruchi True

        Anyway at 62 i’ve Never Felt Healthier
        Stronger As Empirically Measurable still
        Leg Pressing Up to 1520 American Pounds

        And True Still Public Dancing Close to 160 Miles a Month
        Too with Yes a Total of 16,906 Miles Now in 106 Months too

        Yes Still Being Financially Independent Helps Yet True Being
        More Like Love Than Ever Before Within Makes the Candy

        Wrappers Yes
        On the Outside
        Now of Little to No
        Consequence to me

        Yet at my Advanced Age
        of 62 i Still Literally Do Nude
        Art for Aesthetic Purposes true

        And My Wife Says A Recent Work
        of Art was a 10 to Her Do i Need to

        Impress Anyone else at my Advanced
        Age of 62 Not Really Hehe Not Really At all

        Yet i Will Fulfill All my Human Potentials

        With No Worries of How Anyone

        May Judge me for going

        to Places Most

        Humans
        Now Dare

        Not Go True
        Keeps my Soul
        Blooming Dear FRiEnD
        Free As Wings Continue to Soar Higher for Real..:)

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