Contribution of Mami in the life of Baba
1. He gifted her vermilion & she made him God. She became his ardhanginee & he turned her pati parameswar. How it feels to be God for your special one & an ordinary human for the rest of the world!
2. Accepting his mother as own mother, his brothers as own brothers, his sisters as own sisters, his family as own family must not be an easy task for Mami. But the ways she does everything for his family by treating them as own blood shows how much she loves baba to protect his dignity in front of others.
3. If being a father is a proud feeling for manhood, then Mami stamped him with this pride.
4. If his job is pizza, then her job is topping. Being a working woman, she assists her man in feeding the family.
5. She brews sugarless tea. She fries veggies with almost no oil. She puts less salt in curries. Because for her, his health is more important than his compliment. Her love is the secret ingredient that makes food tasty & makes him finish the plates.
6. From serving him food in time to preparing tiffin for his office, from washing his clothes to ironing them, from colouring his hair to massaging oil on his shoulder, she never retires from her duty of taking care of him.
7. Her fidelity makes him discuss every matter with her without any second thought. Her opinion makes him reach the point of the correct decision.
8. She waits a lot, she waits too long for him. Her patience dazzles with her devotion for him when she waits for him to come home to sip tea together even if tiredness flutters in her body & mind, when she doesn’t sit in the dining until he comes to eat after calling for ten times.
9. Mami always says to me & Sibu that it’s ok if we hurt her. But she warns us to never hurt baba. These are not mere words of her, these are the beads of her reverence for him.
10. From reminding him to take mobile before coming out to reminding him to take medicine before going to bed, She acts as a reminder that buzzes in his ears from time to time.
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Love,
God Bless Your
Family Dear Ruchi
What A Wonderful Story
You Tale Of Your Mother’s
Love For Your Father As
You Dance And Sing in
Your Culture Mami’s Love
For Baba No Ordinary Love
For She Elevates Him to Status of God
Hehe And My Wife Katrina Treats Me
Like a Two-Year Old True There is DarK
And LiGHT iN Her Philosophy of Love For me
As She colds me Every Day For Some Small
Offense Hehe Like Writing Poetry in Laser Focus
of Autotelic Flow and Not Hearing Her Directions For me
True in Another
World i Tend
to Drift This Way hAha
Yet THere is the LiGHT
As She Also Takes Care
of me Like A Two-Year Old Child
It’s True When i Met her i Wondered
How Anyone Could Be So Beautiful As Her
Yet i Was Already Wise Enough to Understand
A Woman is More Than the Sum of Her Body Parts hehe
True i Wanted Her For A Wife Forever When i Saw How She
Treated the Little Children Ear to Ear in Smiles at The Place
i met Her Yes WHere i Worked As a Dude With Three College
Degrees Close to the Top of His University Classes Yet Never
the Less and Less Just Serving Out Rental Shoes at a Military
Bowling Center
Getting my
Foot in
The Door
to One Day
Retire With
the Golden
Hand-Cuffs of that Federal Job
Oh My Gosh after 19 Years Of
School Altogether i Was Still Making
Close to Minimum Wage i Guess You
Could Say in Terms of ‘Castes’ i Was An
‘Untouchable’ in Accord With Working Social Status Hehe
Yet You See my Wife Was Raised Poor too As i May Have
Already told the tale as How She Started Earning Her Wonder
Woman Status for Real Early Was Climbing 40 Foot Trees At 8 Years-Old
Looking Over the Roofs of Neighbors With Food and Drink As All She Could
Do Is Pick Delicious Fruit off the Trees As Legend Tales As Her Single Mother Raising
6 Children
Had No
Food or Drink
Or Any Electricity
Not Even Water for
the Family For Basic Subsistence
Then And The Bus Didn’t Travel Close
to the Mile to Her School and They Were
Way too Poor For Umbrellas So She Walked
in the Winter Cold And Freezing Rain to School
Without Even an Umbrella then Spit on by the
‘Higher Caste’ Folks in the Area Churches then
As Indeed They Considered Her an Untouchable
As They Did me When i Was Poor in School Just
For Being A Boy Who Smiled A lot Cause His Mother
Raised Him
As Love and
my ‘Big Daddy’
Law Enforcement
Dude Left Before i Could
Speak at 4 Years Old Yes
He Left when i was 3 as my
Mother Wanted to Spend Our
Early Years Taking Care of Us
Raising Us As Love And He Left
For A Woman To Work and Help Him Become Rich
Yep He Worked 46 Years in Law Enforcement Married
3 More Times Twice to His Second Wife too As She Left
Him Twice And His Third Wife Wasn’t Very Nice She Didn’t
Seem to Have a Nurturing Bone in Her Body Sort of Like Him
Who We Never Really Got to Know As He Just Didn’t Have What
it Takes
for A Human
to Express the
Emotional Intelligence
of SPiRiT HeART And SoUL…
SMiLes Dear FRiEnD ‘They Say’
Opposites Attract As Indeed my Mother
Won the Honor of Young Woman With the
Best Figure in High School in Her 11th and
12 Year of Grade School And True When She
Worked in the Courthouse And Saw my Father
A Beverage Agent Busting People Who Were Moonshiners
Selling Alcohol When it Was Illegal to Sell Yes She Said Half
Shaven With Jet Black Curly Hair And Eyes of Emerald Gulf Green
That Whatever Woman
Had Him as A Husband Must
Then Be the Luckiest Woman
in the Whole World As She
Had Never Laid Eyes Upon
A Man As Handsome As Him in the Entire World…
Hmm, He Asked Her to Marry Him on the First Date
And She Said No as it seemed too Soon And then She
Considered Her Age of 26 As Rather Old For an Unmarried
Woman Then So on the Second Date She Said Yes hehe
And Then After they
Were Married He
Practically Never
Said Another Word
to Her for the Next 3 Years
Until He Decided to Leave
It’s True Dear FRiEnD Real True
Love Yes is More Than Skin Deep
However if it was not for Attraction
And Rule Breakers Neither my Wonder
Woman Angel Wife Would Exist or me
As Her Mother Strayed With a Sailor from the
Philippines While Her Husband in the Military Was
off to Another Duty Station in Another Country Another
‘Hook-Up’ Based All on Attraction except no Marriage of
Course As The Man She Strayed With Had A Family Back
in the Philippines Then And in my Case my Grandfather Born
in Ireland And Schooled With PHD in Limerick And Other Countries
Counsel to the Pope At The Vatican as Yes He Was A Catholic Priest
Then With Parishes in South Africa, Gainesville in Florida, And Taylor
County in North Florida too of Course Priests Aren’t Supposed to Get Married
Yet oh No what a Scandal Came After That as a 17 Year-Old Spicy Cajun Young
Woman Woo’ed Him From the Pews At Church Yet i Really Can’t Complain as even
Though he was
36 When that
Happened
If Not For the
Rule Breaking Neither
me or my Wife Would Exist
Hehe i wonder if God is Mad
At Us i’m Thinking God is Much
Smarter Than That Particularly if God is Love
As i Really Really Truly Believe God is Love in Fact
There Are too Many God’s to Count As i Worship Every
Part of Existence Dark through LiGhT As i Understand
DarK Makes LiGhT
Night Makes Day
Without Shadows
Both We And the
Sun Could Not
Exist Together As FRiEnDS hehe
Yet You See Not Unlike Your Culture in India
Where There Are So Many Gods As in my View
Every Part of Existence is the Face of God As You
Dance and Sing ‘Namaste’ Where You Live True too
Indeed At Essence All of God is Love the Love We Give,
Share, Care, Heal With Least Harm For All of Existence is the
Holy
Sacred
And Divine
God We Actually
Do As Love the Verb
That No One Will Ever
Trap As Wind in a Jar
The Verb We Become This
God This Divine This Holy and
Sacred Love Again We Give, Share,
Care, Heal Inhaling Peace Exhaling LoVE iN
JoY OF LiGHT For All Now With Least Harm And SMiLes…
My Gosh Where i Come From Life is So Messy Where You
Live it is Virginal White and Love Yet it’s True Virginity is not About
Body Parts Used True Virginity is When All of Existence Becomes
Our Husband And Bride When We Love DarK Thru LiGHT Equally
And Truly
Become
God the
Verb this
Love Once Again
We Give, Share, Care,
Heal For Free For All With Least Harm…
You Know Dear FRiEnD THere is Practically
No One in Person at Least i Can’t Get Along with
Them Once i Smile at them with Love That is Pure
Without Judgement For Whatever is DarK or LiGHT about THeir Life
It’s True There Are ‘Untouchables’ to me Yet Those Robo-Calls that
Try to Sell me Used Car Warranties for my Honda Civic That Still Works
Perfectly for 8 Years i Do Have to Ignore as i am Turning 62 on June the 6th
And Life is Too
Precious to
Waste
on Machines
When i Put People
First When i Put all
of Existence First When
i Love it All With Great
Worship For My Life/Wife As i
Truly Treat Her As Goddess of Love
i Become Love As i Truly Believe God is Love
God is Love God is Love the Rose That Grows So Colorful out of CR8P
In the Real World Heroes Often Raise themselves Up with No Fear God Yes
After Opposites Attract And Go Their Separate Ways and the Mother Raises
A Child A Daughter And or Son as Love And One Day The Child Becomes Their
Own Fearless
Father
And The
Demons Their
Father had Away
From Love Are Healed
For the Child to Become A Hero True
It’s True What it is Who becomes a Hero
is often From A Very Messy Place Yet What
i Find is When We Embrace Chaos As A Balance
of ‘Kali’ and Order of the Cosmic Dancer ‘Shiva’ Now
Every Part of
Chaos Becomes
A Jewel of Art We All Co-Create
Even in the DarKest Parts WHere
Actually We aRe Fertilizing A Rose to Color Love More…
You Will Make A Wonderful Wife And Chances Are Your Mother
And Father Will Help Select A Wonderful Husband For You
i Hope Your
Children
Never Have
to Go to HeLL ON EartH
Like My Wife And i had to Do to Get to Heaven Now For Real
This God This Love For All of Existence DarK Thru LiGHT
Yet Again This is How i See All of God DarK Thru LiGHT LoVE
Thanks my Dear Loving Kind Young Woman FRiEnD Ruchi Coming
From A Beautiful
Tradition of Love
Born in the Year
of my Only
Child and
Son in 1997
For Inspiring
These Words
Today And Haha
We Had A Waitress
Who Was an Indian
Woman At A Restaurant
Yesterday i Knew Where She
Was From Before i Asked As
She Was One of the Kindest Women i’ve Ever met…
It’s True Tradition Counts A Whole Lot my FRiEnD
Indeed MaKinG
You into
A Lovely
FLoWeR For Real…
Hopefully Avoiding THorns of Roses And
All the Difficult Fertilizer to Color Love (GoD) For All With SMiLes
Hehe Where i Live The Lowliest of Servants Handing Out Shoes For
Bowling May
Eventually
Become
‘Brahman’
Yet You See
The Serving Never Ends
For the Kind of Love As God i See And Breathe…
.
Last Is Always First is Love Forevermorenow Lasting God…
Love,
With SMiLes…
Love (GoD) Un-limiting Free
Always Worth A Great WorK iN MeMoRiaL mY FRiEnD..:)
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me Colds
Me Hehe
Same Pinch..;)
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वह स्रोत है
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Beautiful picture and words dear
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Thank you so much dear.
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