Bestie with boyfriend

Things that come to mind when I see my best friend with her boyfriend-

1. They look adorable together. May their togetherness emit elegance like this when her face will become a canvas for wrinkles & the canopy above his head will undergo autumn.

2. Gone are the days when I used to top her priority list. I fear one day even my “best friend” tag will be snatched away from me & will be affixed beside his name. I fear one day she will confuse her boyfriend as a synonym of best friend.

3. A gap has been formed between what she feels, what she says & what I understand. My zero practical experience in bf gf kinda relationship isn’t letting me completely see her as the girlfriend of someone. Sometimes my idea bank is deficient enough to decode her choked throat, muted lips, swinging mood & raining eyes.

4. Being a lover of permanence, my mind dangles with lots of what-ifs. What if his love is a whiff meant to evanesce one day, what if her devotion, her faith will be hammered one day, what if their families won’t embrace their love with open arms, what if destiny will play a devil role, what if this love will leave my best friend broken one day!

5. Now my conscience denies me to crack jokes at cosy couples in front of her, to share memes regarding nibbas nibbis with her. I dread if she will mistake my humour for sarcasm & will get connected to it.

6. He loves her Priti for the way he breathes. But their love story isn’t “Kabir Singh” meant to be shown, their love story is named “Pripta” meant to be lived.

7. Medical college is the temple where they worship their profession as well as love. People will see Gods in them as well as bless them. May they gather so much blessings that they will be always able to cure each other’s wounds that world can’t visualise.

8. Thoughts. Thoughts. Go away. Let me imagine their marriage. Let me plan what to gift them. Let me browse the things that will make me look the prettiest when my bestie will become the bride.
©ruchiabhisikta

5 thoughts on “Bestie with boyfriend

  1. Considering How Extraordinarily
    Kind You Are Dear Ruchi Very
    Surprised i Will

    Be if Your

    Best FRiEnD
    Ever Leaves
    Your Side Hehe

    Besides Every Married
    Woman Will Eventually Need

    A Best FRiEnD to Vent Minor
    Never Ending Annoyances About

    Whoever The Husband May Be As
    After Romantic Passion Cools It’s the Little

    Things That May
    Remain That
    Aren’t Nearly
    As Sweet
    To Tolerate
    Different As they
    Once Were For Real…

    As Far As i Understand the
    Unspoken Rules For Men You
    Just Say Yes Dear The Best You
    Can And Will and Make Any Frustrations
    Disappear For Whatever Tools Will Make
    Inhaling Peace And Exhaling Love Come Again

    After Each
    Yes Dear
    With SMiLEs my FRiEnD

    A lot of the Love i Give to Others
    Comes From my Wife Yet it is also True
    A lot of the Love i Give to my Wife Comes

    From Other FRiEnDS too…

    Yep usually From FRiEnDS
    Long And Distant Far Away
    Just Like You With SMiLes…

    Yet It’s True it Seems to Be Different
    When Men Are FRiEnDS With Women

    As There is Only So Many Hours in A Day
    For FRiEnDS Particularly When Medical Professions
    Come in to Play As How Many Minutes May Be Left Over

    For Hello

    or Even

    A Hug at the
    End of the Day

    Yet Still There Must
    Be Another Place to
    Vent And Surely You Will
    Always Be A Vital Part of
    Her Mental Health With SMiLEs…

    FRiEnDS AT Best Lift Each OTHeR UP!..:)

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  2. I knw how this feels.. I had to force myself to be introverted when I am with the couple as I used to think how their reaction will be if i just crack jokes on nibba nibbis or tease them like we as a best frnds used to do to others before…

    But It always feels satisfied when they are happy together.. thats what a best frnd wants…!!

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