Dear (Pseudo)feminist,
Realizing your busy schedule of last week, my ink suppressed its desire to flow and the postcard preferred to remain empty. But today I can’t control the progenies of my mind, my thoughts from interacting with those of yours. Hope that today you must be less busy than last Tuesday, March 8. Although likes and comments must be still flooding on your posts of celebration of International women’s day. I know my words will give you a bitter taste and you may start to puke from the beginning without gulping the whole content till the end.
Before telling you anything, I want to confirm that I too am a female and not an anti-feminist. I have also seen and experienced the struggle of a woman’s life. But I feel there is torque in the viewpoint regarding feminism, so mine differs from that of yours. You consider feminism as the right of women to do anything and everything like that of men. Okay, I agree. But don’t you misuse freedom in the name of feminism?
You want to booze, smoke & cuss in public just because some men do & you claim equal rights. But don’t you think you have the ability to use your time, money & thoughts to inspire many women & to bring men back from the track of vices? You attend Saturday night parties saying “mah life, mah choice”. But have you ever planned a grand lunch on Sunday for the whole family or best of friends?
You may name half-naked outfit as fashion. But you can feel how pleasantly your skin will love to be draped in decent attire. Feminism can also breathe even when your skin is not naked. But your feminism gets suffocated when ten male eyes stare at your over-rated fashion. Don’t you choose suffocation over free breathing on your own just to fit yourself into the frame of “hot”, “sexy”, “curvy”?
What is the need to over publicize that you bleed, bear pain every month? Rather you should feel proud that you are capable enough to fight like a warrior although injured physically and psychologically. Accepting nature’s design & coping with it is a much better way than complaining & seeking sympathy when it comes to menstruation days.
Instead of holding placards “Save girl child” “Stop domestic violence”, it will make sense if you do some small help for such forsaken females. What is the meaning of spending thousands on rallies, posting those pictures on social media & using a hundred hashtags when you stay mum seeing such heinous crime in your surrounding?
I have witnessed many girls who flirt with boys one after another. There are still wives who behave brutally with their in-laws. Even they don’t step back to claim as victims of #metoo for no valid reason that too doing wrong themselves. If emotions define women, how do some women mark their victory in dumping others?
Womanhood and feminism are your wings, dear women. Use them to fly high in the sky of development along with men, don’t use your wings to make men feel low.
Celebrate 8th March as Women’s day, but march on the path of morality, each day.
You may call my words the rant of an old school girl or age-old granny. I don’t mind.
Yours not so dear
A humanist
©ruchiabhisikta
Half earth, half sky 
SMiLes Dear ruchiabhisikta
‘They’ Say THere iS A War
Between Man And
Woman Now
Yet i Personally
Haven’t Witnessed
This War As i practice
Human Kind in my Life With
SMiLes Without Relation to
Categories and Labels of Being
However it’s True my Human Kind
Is Not Always Welcome As For Some
Folks THere
Doesn’t
Seem
to Be
Any Room
For Kind Left Now
In THeir Lives And
To me That’s Sad
As Kind is
A Real
Leader
of Happiness
Within WHere Give
Becomes Receive
And The Feeling And
Sense Within is What’s Real
Regardless of How That Love
is Clothed or Hidden Away mY FRiEnD..:)
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the smiling feeling
behind a male mask
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Not Sure How You
Experience Your
Smiles Yet Mine
Are Filled With
Real Feelings of
Confidence And
Love And Almost
Always Women At
Least Interpret my
Smiling
Filled Feelings
Appropriately Correct😊
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i am evil
and good
simultaneously
i am time
in my short time
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SMiles it Seems
Most Have the
Potential😊
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In real war
and in the war between man and woman
there is no laughing matter for the victim
But; what you have not personally witnessed
this horror while watching her smile unrelated to
Practice categories and designations of being
to people in their own experiences in their lives
But it is true,
their essence is of indivisible dignity
even if for some you are not always welcome
We, the other people are there
even if we don’t appear before their eyes
your view
as an interpretation
from any room
in U.S
for left now
In our life
her way of being sad about us
us the feeling
as a real leader
us within by her gift of happiness
received from us
give the inner feeling
this is what should be real for us
You are not sure like me
experience my reality in my subjective moment
They smile because they
the truth of the emotional world
of all people on earth are
they are the only ones filled
with the authenticity of the feelings
of trust and love
and almost always women they
at least your wife will interpret you that way
You smile of your filled feelings
reasonably correct around the world
Independently of
(love is just a word)
what love clothes or hides
Smile like it seems to have potential
too many of those kinds
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Correction:
in us
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Dude, i’ve Worked
For The Military for
A Quarter of A Century
And Have Heard Many
Stories of Horrible Abuse By Women
i’ve Known…
You Have No
Idea How i Feel
Or What i’ve Been
Through in
my Life Nor
Do i Of You…
Let’s Leave
It At That Please…
Meanwhile i’m
Gonna Keep Smiling
And Some People
Will Return That
Much of Human Reality…
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I’m not your “dude”
that’s right
i can another
his mind
don’t know his emotional world
You are allowed to go
wherever you want
I won’t hold you back
like her laugh
for your friends
be a blessing
every person
lives its own reality
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That’s another perspective.
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You just said it. Nowadays, many females are misusing feminism and when someone counters them, they declare him or her orthodox or old-fashioned. Many men are implicated in false dowry cases, rape cases, molestation cases, etc by women. It ruins their and their family’s entire lives. Many women start playing the victim even when they are wrong and use feminism as their defense system.
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Whether man
whether woman
the finger pointing
on the bad others
three fingers point at myself
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Let it be this way, but it won’t restrict me from expressing what I feel.
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i give answer
on the
what you have to say to us
I don’t stop anyone
to put his feelings into words
i have no lesson
of infallibility to represent
for your thoughts
your conviction
there are no arguments against it
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This says much about your integrity, sense of self, and willingness to be real. For me, I would rather live my life experiencing clarity in ignorance, than feign knowing something because some authority and/or famous person said so and it’s popular with others. I support the movement; I don’t support the dogma or double standards often presented. Thank you for this!
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Nice to hear abhisikta
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